There’s no better feeling than finding the perfect pair of shoes that not only look gorgeous but make your ‘gigantic’ feet look smaller too! But what’s the perfect pair of shoes without the perfect dress?

So you head to the clothes store and on the mannequin is the absolute perfect dress and you just have to have it! There’s just one problem, they don’t stock it in your size. And your insecurity about your size comes back to you in a rush, and those half-an-hour-ago proclaimed perfect shoes are not so perfect anymore...

So, with no shoes or dress you head home. Now have you ever had fantastic sex after one of these days? Hell no, because all you can think about is your size and how you wish that you were two sizes smaller and that would make all the difference in the world.

A couple of iDiva readers agreed. Here's what they had to say when we asked them - Would you feel good about sex if you were one size smaller?

"Would I feel sexier if I was a size 6? I really would, sexier and way more attractive. I admire all those girls who can just fit into a casual dress but make it look hot because of the way it fits them and the fact that they have all the right curves in the right places. I do tend to put off sex whenever I can because truth is I just don’t like my size and yeah I’d definitely feel better in the perfect size 6 dress which I cannot fit into.”
-Naina Shetty, 27, sound engineer

"I’m usually very bubbly and enthusiastic about everything except having sex because that’s where I have to strip down to my birthday suit and I have love handles and huge thighs that I wish I could get rid off. In fact, I remember a day when I went out looking to buy a dress for Christmas and my boyfriend’s ex girlfriend was at the same store and it fit her perfectly while it just brought out the fact that I did indeed have love handles. Sex definitely wasn’t good that night,”
-Pia Keshrai, 25, make up artist

So does being the perfect dress size equal steamy sex? For some reason it does, when a woman knows she looks sexy she automatically feels sexy and then there’s no stopping her.

The guys had a different thing to say altogether! Women are you listening?

"I don’t get why women are so obsessed with their bodies. My girlfriend is obsessed with getting a stick thin body like Kareena Kapoor when she has a curvy body that I absolutely love.” -Zeeshan Jain, 25, musician

"A woman whatever body type can still look sexy no matter what. I think Malaika Arora Khan is sexy and so is Kangana Ranaut and they both have different body types. They’d both look sexy in a short black dress. It’s about how you carry off a dress with your personality.” -Tyrone Rozario, 28, photographer

What we think is that there’s no perfect size, just the perfect dress for your perfect body type that not only makes you look perfect but most importantly makes you feel perfect too! And there you have it from the guys, there’s no particular stereotype for sexy. A perfectly lean woman can be just as sexy as a curvaceous woman.

What do you think designers have a job for? All you need to do is find the perfect dress that accentuates your body and get out of the insecurity frame of mind and into the confident diva mode.

There’s nothing sexier to a guy than confidence and you won’t find one guy who won’t agree to that.